On a Safari Man-Hunt So 96% of my blog has been bad dates, despicable displays of character, and atrocious words shared. The way people treat each other is inhumane in this secular world. Yes, there are definitely some girl on girl crime, guy on guy crime, and dare I say, girl on guy crime. I’ve broken more than one heart since the beginning of this blog and I’m sure there’s more than one heart I've broken more than one time. I’m not naïve enough to think that "I’m going to die alone" and "there’s no good guys out there" and "woe is me, I’m a good girl. There’s copious areas of self-growth that I have yet to master, but we all are a work in progress so, attitude and perseverance is key.
I’ve changed my motive in regards to finding someone that:
At the beginning of this journey, two years ago, I had a much different motive; I had a much different drive and polar opposite expectations. That was 2016. Think of your expectations have changed since then-- the quality of food you'll drink, the number of liquors you will mix on a given night, the physical appearance you have, the physical appearance you are drawn to.... the list is like the energizer bunny... a LOT can change in a year. Imagine how drastic the changes are in two! Since then, I have degraded to the worst possible dating site out there. I refuse to pay for them because I have several friends that have received just as much, if not heightened disrespect and degrading actions from guys on a paid matchmaking site. Meeting guys at bars are also a tossup… And it becomes more seldom that they actually approach you. I’ve had some guys tell me first hand, if they met me in a bar, they are not looking for relationship so even if we hit it off, they would’ve never taken me out and taking me seriously. I don’t really know where that came from and why that’s become such a standard, but I wish someone could do something about it. I'm reluctant to admit a guesstimation of my "sample size" of all the guys I've gone on a date with but it surpassed 100 months ago... So, in the a hundreds or so guys I have gone out with, there of been a handful of good ones that deserve their shine. I’ve made a couple posts about ones that treat me well.
I want to boldly say that nice guys exist. I have two exes that are incredible human beings; their contributions to the world, thus far, has been paramount. So if these phenomenal two men exist, there’s bound to be what at least 100 more? OK fine. Maybe close to 1 million. Where do these rare beasts reside? You can often find them in friend zone’s and developing their craft. Whatever it maybe. If it’s video games, paint-balling, writing, conducting, composing, auditioning for rolls of a lifetime, or even caring for a elder loved ones — they’re out there with a colossal heart, just waiting for the right girl to stumble upon them. So here’s a toast to the nice guys that finish last and here’s a series that I hope can have some real girth.
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