So, I've reached the point in my dating where I've said goodbye to WAY TOO MANY good guys. Guys most girls would kill for! Guys practically made for Disney princesses.... but.... I find excuses and exit clauses and I break it off, much faster than a kitkat (no, I didn't give them a break). Sure, I've got my sights on things much more significant for my future than a guy right now, sure I've said I haven't wanted to be tied down to anyone right now, but then BAM! I find myself chasing after guys with caution tape ALL over them:
Why great, established women indulge in relations with bad boysNice guys really finish last and I have proof. I polled 25 successful, beautiful, and charming women that, in my opinion HAVE IT ALL. The question: "Why did you give a bad guy the time of day when you know DAMN-WELL he's no good for you?""You want what you can't have. You know it's never gonna happen and it's satisfying." "Good at sex 10000% main reason" "I don't think I've dated bad guys. All the guys I can think of were pretty nice and good and I’m on good terms with a good chunk of them" "So the first time we ever hung out we drank a whole water bottle of tequila that he stole from his parents, all while we were driving around in a golf cart. We actually ended up dating for two-and-a-half years. He was hott, he was a grade above me, but there were so many red flags! At the time, I just thought it was a great freaking idea." "I was fresh out of a breakup and I met this guy at the State Fair. After clicking, he revealed that he had just been arrested and was on probation. I still pursued dating him. He had a nice car (even though he had no license), he was older, from out of town, and my favorite, was he was unlike anyone I've ever been attracted to. Then, after we broke up, I dated his friend. He was even older. Super cute, a firefighter in training, and was very hard to get. That was intriguing. I almost became obsessed with him even though I knew he would never be in a relationship with me." "This guy had his own apartment downtown and we only dated three weeks.... But three weeks was something. He took me to a movie that was about how to make a porno. It was really weird that he would do that with me being 16! I knew he was all wrong but, he was mysterious. He was outside of my school, so no one knew him. Part of me wanted to go through a bad phase. I liked him because he was different. Any bad boy I have encountered was because he was different." "Several bad boys! They weren't good people and didn't treat me well. Then again, they're not like me. You want them to be different and I was looking for different in the wrong places." "Well thats a loaded question. I think many girls want to push boundaries and get the rush that 'bad boys' give you. Those type of boys make you feel alive and you can be someone your not in all other aspects of your life. If all of your life has been safe it's fun to be with someone that's not 'safe.' It's kind of like knowing storms are dangerous, but you still like storms and even want to go out and play." "Wilson in high school was my irresistible bad boy, because he was so edgy and different and I wanted to shock my friends with an older man who went awol from the marines." "I think I always thought he would get better, like he would say sweet things and that meant he was capable of doing sweet things deep down. BOY WAS I WRONG." "I was into a guy that was arrested for drunk driving a car that didn't necessarily belong to him. But, I'd been single a long time and well... Needed to get laid. I feel like that's what bad boys come down to sometimes." "Bad guys play games. Like you really have to chase them. It's kind of like a competition with yourself if you can get him." "Hahha probably not a bad boy cause that's not my type but defffff someone who wasn't good for me. Ugh wanted it to work so bad even though I knew it was a bad idea" "I don't know how to answer. It just is an attraction..." "Bad boys were always interesting to girls who grew up with restricted households. We want that thrill and feel of "danger". But in the end, the quintessential "bad boy" was unreliable, most likey unemployed or constantly in between jobs, or had a disgusting living situation. After a while, they lose their wow factor and we move on. Or some of us don't because we think we can change them for the better." "This guy was homeless, lots of baggage, and had NO interest in any kind of a relationship. He stood me up at least once, yet was the best sex I've ever had and was soooo hott. I'm sure he still is hott..." "It just.... kinda happens." "Because you know it won’t last long term....So you let yourself indulge and get to experience it while you can. No one actually wants to settle down with the bad guy. They know he won’t last." "Ahh, that bad boy! They're aloof; they don't care about anything. His mom was having a party and said he guessed he could take me there at the spur of the moment. When they see you, they want you right there. No date, just instant." 4 more said they don't go for bad guys.... mhmm ;)) lol jk I've accounted for their absence of bad boys. So, I'd like to say that girls are completely innocent in bad boy rendezvous... but, we knew what we were getting into.Tip to 5***** Guys:
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