Mr. Waste at it again! Remember the guy that showed up 32 minutes late, only to talk about himself the entire time and then ask our waitress to split the bill? Yeah well he's back and with a vengeance. After I cut out early immediately following our less than mediocre date, I didn't really hear from him.... but then he engaged in what they call haunting. Haunting: (verb) "A variation of ghosting, in which the ghoster continues indirect contact with the ghosted by liking and faveing his or her social media content; New dating phenomena where the person that ghosted you pops in and out of your life like a ghost haunting you." [Brought to you by urbandictionary]. He started watching all of my snaps and even commented the hearts face on some of my selfies. Polite, as a southern girl was raised, I remained cordial. Then, he makes a smirk comment about how he only got to see me for 15 minutes. I briefly stated that I thought it was a date and turned out not to be. He demanded I elaborate and then he sent this response: Yes, of course I screenshotted it and sent it to half the people in my phone. Even the guys agreed that was bs. My response: "Here's my thing. 1. I adore chivalry and quite frankly, believe I deserve it 2. A first date is about first impression so why would you not want to treat a girl? 3. As a woman, you have NO idea how many serums, face creams, concealers, make up, waxes, shaving, hair treatments, hair products, manicures, pedicures, clothes that fit my body type "just so," spandex, and sexy underwear it takes to be appealing to a guy and you're telling me, a guy can't buy me a couple drinks and a burger? 4. Not to mention, monthly periods, self esteem issues that guys cause with their deceit, AND we have to pop out the babies while the guy keeps the last name? Yeah, you can buy my dinner." I bought my own dessert because, why waste ingredients when I wasn't sure where this was gonna go? Think you deserve homemade cookies? Get. Outta. Here.
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