Featured in the vlog as the young navy guy that wants to date me and respected my "giving up dating for lent."Although he respected that and asked me on the first conversation we engaged in if I would come visit him on the west coast, his actions didn't measure up to his talk.
Although all those are true datesandcakes first dates, this one didn't take our date seriously and for the first time in years, I knew I deserved better.He kept getting on his phone, his friends barged in for like 4 minutes of the movie, he almost left the date to go to the other side of the California base to help his friends sneak back on, he brought up a YOLO message that some girl put on his story, and then he said he's "got this in the bag" and assumed we were having a second date. I made sure to make it clear that he didn't have to be sorry, but it was actually me that was sorry; I was the one that had unrealistic expectations because I took this seriously. Naturally, he schmoozed me and talked me into a second movie with him. Oh, but don't get ahead of yourself. We didn't watch it.... he had to go talk to his buddies in a couple hours so cut it short before another movie was brought up a second time. I was ASTONISHED that yet ANOTHER guy that claimed to care failed to follow through with actions. I felt foolish and lonely and quite frankly, desperate. If you've read even 2 DatesandCakes posts, you'd know that this is new concept or lesson to learn. Yes, he listened for my favorite flower BUT, still owes me royalties for using my Stephanie Original that quotes Tony the Tiger...
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