"This is a story all about how my life got twisted, upsidedown. So I'd like to take a minute, just sit right there and I'll tell you how" this guy ended things with decency and care.... He didn't ghost you AND gave a legitimate reason, including feelings? Pshh, and I'm the Prince of Bel-AirHe yelled to [Stephanie], go home! Smell ya later!" .... not really. It actually went a little something like this: Please read all of this I have to tell you something though, I think I really fucked up big time with this. You're a really awesome woman Stephanie, and I don't want to waste your time because you've had so many guys before me do the same...I think I waited too long to see you again after that first date even though we said we were going to wait... In my mind right now, we're just friends and it's so hard to move out of that room, even when it's that way in your mind too (I know, I've tried on many occasions). There's a reason I didn't kiss you on that date we went on. It's because I really didn't want to screw this up and I knew that this was going to be something special that I'd want to savor and cherish. So I didn't kiss you and we had that awkward moment instead where we just sat and it felt like I was telling you to get out of my car but I didn't want you to leave. But then things kept getting in the way of us seeing each other again. None of this is your fault, it's just how differently guys and gals fall in love. You all take way longer lol and generally it's the guy's love drive that fuels the spark of the relationship, but for me right now, the wood is pretty cold and I don't know where the flint is😔... if a friendship sounds like something you'd want to keep with me, I'd be grateful to continue down that path. I just don't want to waste your time, I'm so sorry. (If you think there's another woman involved, you're completely mistaken, this is all from my head and heart) You're definitely a good guy. There's no doubt in my mind about that. We have taken a lot of time off and I thought you would never acknowledge that kiss or lack thereof one... LOL I'm glad you did. I respect your honesty more than I can completely Express. You made a lot of valid points and were very courteous yet intentional with your words. I would be honored to be considered your friend. I wholeheartedly mean that. Thank you for wearing your heart on your sleeve while also being mindful of mine. I've had a really rough day so the eloquence of your words is appreciated Your welcome, I'm glad you read it all. This isn't towards this haha but I think I've just really grown up over the past two years and it's humbling to get messages back like this from like-minded and rational people. It's the proof in the pudding. Because of his genuine comments, I ignored the incorrect use of "your" and any other small grammatical hiccups ;)))) See? It can be done,to tell someone you're just not into them without...well, not telling them anything and bolting like a bat out of hell. America's Favorite Cookie for America's Favorite Dating ClosureIngredientsFor cake:
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