Rando Guy: Hey Hey, can you send me a picture of your face? Rando Guy: Ha! like you had to specify. You have NO idea how many dick pics I've received. They were all warranted Rando Guy: I never send em unless asked... Bc chilvalry. ....Bc decency And yes, he spelled chivalry wrong. The conversation never picked up again. No front for confronting...After discovering a guy I was talking to was pushing 400lbs AND engaged in drag shows as A PARTICIPANT, I was haphazard about talking to faceless strangers online. I knew I needed to be more direct when pictures were concerned, to ensure we don't waste each other's time. Everyone is entitled to their own type, and you certainly can't be everyone's-- this blog is just one testimony to that! My waist size, hair color, even face shape may not be someone's cup of tea-- hell! Some may even believe my freckles are contagious like some strand of chickenpox scientists been unable to cure... as preposterous as that sounds, that actually would explain why on more than one occasion a guy has sprinted the scene of my life. There's several qualities I'm not keen to, as we all are entitled to. The key, with this certain entitlement, is tact. Just because someone's smile isn't braces-altered or their eyes suggest that they're full of shit (just kidding ;), doesn't justify crude reactions; barricade your bitchiness and politely curve them like a minor league pitcher. Your friend card, not interested in a relationship card, or wild card can be a useful play here. But how does one actually make a request:
Upon serious (super cereal) discussion with my bestie about it, we decided the best way to address this while upholding the most tact, is with this phrase: Hey! Can I get a picture of you with your shoes on? His response was Mastercard priceless.
"Which shoes? My shoes?"
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