When Arrogance Comes to PlayIt's one thing to want to sell yourself (no, this is not a post about prostitution, nor is it about marketing yourself) but there is a point where it becomes blatant egotism. Dude. We get it that you spend more time at the gym than majority of American do sleeping, but do you have document EVERY bench press? And I'm not even talking about his profile, story, or wall... I'm talking about direct messaging girls with pictures of you at the gym. What reaction are you hoping for with constant gym pics? "Oh Daddy, Let Me join you?" We both know you wouldn't want that because then it would slow your testosterone or rep cycle or something. What about: "Oh your body is beautiful?" I mean that's probably the most likely response... or my favorite will being, "Oh, so that means you're going to spend more time at the gym then you will with me." That's what like at least 60% of girls are thinking. Just saying. I don't know.... the whole working out thing actually makes me delete people... But that's just me. Also I'm not big on fitness... Unless it's fittin' this burger in my mouth! hehe ;) So personally, I'm not trying to spend time with someone that's so worried about protein and not eating anything fun. I once dated a guy that didn't drink, only had bland chicken, eggs, broccoli, salad, and protein shakes. I guess he had water too, but I never saw him drink water. I'm sorry, where exactly is the fun in that? I'm not saying go eat a cheeseburger everyday... But a juicy steak does do a lot of good for a lot of people. Cows are glorious and majestic creatures and they should be appreciated at every angle. Been cut, sliced, chopped, roundhouse, filet, I don't know I just like food. #Braggingrights So we've all had guys that send pictures of their abs and of a bunch of surface stuff (well, maybe not the guys, but hey, maybe so! You never know in 2018). Shallow pictures that aren't going to last. Then again, I guess technology hasn't yet advanced to the point of capturing a picture of one's soul. So maybe you could be an 80 year old bodybuilder... Who am I to judge that? Yet, I won't be around to know if he is. I'll be with someone that enjoys going out and trying new things and works out in moderation. That's the way you should approach everything in life. Meatheads are in no deeper level attractive. I've even had acquaintances that agree and they are some level of a meathead. It's all about approach and attitude; if your ego is too big, you won't have room for anything or anyone else. Then there's the guys that are really proud of their manhood. I know, I know I already did a whole post on dick pics, but still..... people are proud. There's the guys that are overly proud of their income. I've had at least a dozen guys tell me how much they make. I don't know why you would want to attract a girl that would care about that. If you have to bribe someone to be with you, that's probably not your soulmate (not that anyone believes in that anymore but, just saying). Then there are the guys that brag about their accomplishments and their hobbies. Underwater basket weaving, surfing, teaching kids with autism how to swim (hold up-- that one is actually really cool), and fishing. How do you know that they're good at fishing? By the notorious Big Fish in there picture that they're holding with some goofy grin.. I saw the price tag on one of them.... that guy was my favorite. Then there's this guy; illustrated by this beautiful screenshot. I always go for intellect, but this guy was just being pompous. It was such a turn-off, not because I couldn't keep up with his intelligent banter, but because who actually talks like that? I know there's some people got it. But dude you're on a dating site. At least save that for the freaking date. I just found it a turn off. Now don't get me wrong, it was nice to have someone that use the correct you're correct there, but he still seems ultra conceited. Who wants to date someone that's more into themselves and they ever could be anyone else? Not it. Bragging is not cute and at the end of the day, where is that going to get you? Painting yourself as some pretentious prick. Like that early 2000's Colby O'donis' (who? #onehitwonder) song, "Always talking 'bout what you got. Always talking bout what you got. Girl, you know that you need to stop." For cereal guys, do you enjoy talking to someone that only puts themselves up and gloats about their accomplishments, physique, and experiences? Someone that is always trying to one-up your story doesn't make for an enjoyable conversation. So to the guy that I simply stated I like to dabble in writing and poetry and followed up with this flashy arrangement of words, tone it down OR find a scholar..... but either way, in the words of Selena Gomez, "It ain't me. (na na na nananaaaa)."
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