Whatever you adore or seek most in life is something you should constantly be in pursuit of. -datesandcakes Forget "raindrops on roses" and "brown paper packages tied up with string," frolicking past familiar lines (state, map, country) is one of my favorite things. It is quite possibly my favorite! So why, might I ask, would I jeopardize that for a possible romantic interest? Would I really let a guy hinder that? Or is a date with an opportune companion something I could pursue while exploring new cities?
If you're experiencing mediocre dates and subpar conversations, then your most valuable non-renewable resource is slipping through your fingers like sand in an hourglass. Stop wasting your time, spending it with people that don't deserve it... Even if that's just the man upstairs or a good friend on the other line of a phone. I'm speaking from personal experience for allowing boneheads to consume my time like lust leeches. So, I sought out better. I wasn't afraid of conversation with guys from the windy city, the big apple, or the big d (city not actually.... I mean, is that really something to fear? Come on now;)Dates are intended to present a comfortable and enjoyable (hopefully, gosh!) platform to absorb rays of a person's personality. Thus providing you data to review and determine if they are a person you wish to pursue and continue engaging with. If you are undecided, like I was the first two years of college, you may take a leap of faith or walk away, never looking back. If you are intrigued, well, hopefully you'll find even more engaging activities to partake together. This person you're trying to learn from the ground level should have a similar desire to learn you. Hold up, Stephanie! I'm on Tinder.. I really should be lucky to have a guy not have a weird fetish or have a girl that doesn't unleash her crazy on the first date.... A travel date is much too much of a skyscraper standard. Why though? Would you spend time with friends that ONLY ever wanted to do what peaked their interest? Would you waste rolls of quarters on ski-ball if you couldn't care less if the ball hit 100 or the girl with the bad extensions behind you? You should never feel that something that will bring you utter happiness is unattainable. Realism must be acknowledged, but that's why honesty and hobbies are something to express prior to even agreeing to a first date. You may save yourself some heartache or guys, some money, if there's opposing views colder than the polar (bears, santa's workshop, bi). So, it's a mystery to uncover if they believe you're worth getting to know. Then, it will be natural to try to engage in activities you like, because they'll value doing things with you to make you smile. Don't settle for Netflix and chill. Both teams deserve someone that cares about their interest in about where they're going in life. I've been to the magical world of Disney, San Antonio River Walk, Miami Beach, Fredericksburg German Town, and Myrtle Beach for dates. Not to mention the projected Maine trip for my best friend and I, Disney Park-Hopper date, and a spontaneous trip to one of the great lakes. These seem farfetched but, each one of these guys learned that my values lie in adventures and not diamonds, roses, or manicures. If I can find people that take the time, anyone can. I found the recipe most suiting is the copycat recipe of the poster child cookie of traveling! ....or hotels at least.DoubleTree Cookie Recipe
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